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Myths Truer Than Facts

11 Friday Mar 2016

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“My point, once again, is not that those ancient people told literal stories and we are now smart enough to take them symbolically, but that they told them symbolically and we are now dumb enough to take them literally.”

–John Dominic Crossan

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“Aw, that’s just a myth!” People often exclaim something along those lines when they want to debunk a story that’s being touted as true. The dictionary defines myth as “1. a traditional story, especially one concerning the early history of a people or explaining some natural or social phenomenon, and typically involving supernatural beings or events; 2. a widely held but false belief or idea.” So myths are linked to traditions of peoples, and are also held to be “false”, i.e. not factual.

But are myths really false? Many people consider our great spiritual texts; like the Torah, the Bible, the Koran, the Vedas, Upanishads and the Bhagavad Gita, to be taken literally as the Word of G!D. Others consider them nothing more than fairy tales, comforting myths. But beyond these opposite poles is another way.

I propose that myths are sagas that contain those great truths too large to be contained by mere facts or history. Deeply resonant teachings, stories that build meaning, moral lessons, too powerful, universal and True in the most profound sense, to be limited to any one place or time. So when people ask me if I believe the Bible is true, I tell them, “Yes, I think it’s profoundly true. But I never take it literally.”

Any text that is referred to as the Living Word of the Divine could never be limited to one interpretation, one place, one time. That’s what makes it alive- continuous growth, change, and adaptation to the current environment. One story from Sinai is that the Voice of the One spoke to all the people assembled as individuals, and all heard and understood the teachings in their own way that was most meaningful and best for them. It’s not one size fits all. As one of my mentors used to say, “Stay close to those seeing the truth. And far away for anyone who’s found it!”

What profound truths can you discover in your spiritual myths today?

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John Dominic Crossan (born February 17, 1934) is an Irish-American New Testament scholar, historian of early Christianity, and former Catholic priest who has produced both scholarly and popular works. His research has focused on the historical Jesus, on the anthropology of the Ancient Mediterranean and New Testament worlds and on the application of postmodern hermeneutical approaches to the Bible.

Joe Laur is a father, husband, naturalist, executive, consultant, and a lowly rabbinic student. He can be reached at joe.laur@godsdog.net.

Returning to Our Best Selves

01 Tuesday Mar 2016

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“Repent one day before your death.”

–Rabbi Eliezer ben Hurcanus

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The students of Rabbi Eliezer were said to have asked him, “If we are to repent the day before we die, how do we know that day?” He is said to have replied, “You don’t. Therefore every day should be a day of repentance!”

Now in Hebrew, the word for repentance is tshuvah, which literally means return. Tshuvah is a process of returning- to who we are, our highest aspirations, our deepest values, our truest selves. We all wander frequently from the path we want to walk, and if we make return to that path a daily practice, we will not stray too far from it. When it does come time to settle our final accounts, we won’t have a lot of work to do, but a short walk home.  I’d call that wisdom, wouldn’t you?

How can you return to your truest self today?

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Eliezer ben Hurcanus or Eliezer ben Hyrcanus, was one of the most prominent tannaim of the 1st and 2nd centuries, known as a severe teacher and his strict devotion to tradition. He is the sixth most frequently mentioned sage in the Mishnah.

Joe Laur is a father, husband, naturalist, executive, consultant, and a lowly rabbinic student. He can be reached at joe.laur@godsdog.net.

When It’s OK to Be Selfish

29 Monday Feb 2016

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If I am not for myself, who is for me? And if I am only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when?

-Hillel the Elder

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Every time I’m on a plane, and I hear the crew instructions; “Please secure your own mask before assisting others”, I think of Hillel’s words.  Hillel reminds us that loving our neighbor as ourselves requires that we first love ourselves. Like many of us, I was taught not to be self-ish, even to be self-sacrificing. But think about that for a moment- if I’m self- sacrificing taken to the extreme, doesn’t that mean I sacrifice  my Self? If I am totally self-less, aren’t I left with no self? And if I’m self-ish,  Hillel seems to suggest it as a prerequisite for helping others, having a healthy self.

But he doesn’t leave it there. If we are selfish to the point of excluding others from our sphere of care, we become something other than fully human- “what am I”? So we need, once again, to find that Goldilocks zone- where we care for ourselves, but not at the expense or exclusion of others, and we care for others, but not at the total expense or exclusion of ourselves.

And when do we do this? Now. For Now is all we have. Notice how it’s always NOW, and  never THEN? Anything we don’t do in the Now simply does not get done. Fortunately, we have a large supply of Now, and there’s plenty to go around. Care of self, care of others. Right Now. And Now. And Now. Repeat as necessary.

How can you care for yourself and others right now?

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Hillel (variously called Hillel HaGadol, or Hillel HaZaken, Hillel HaBavli or HaBavli; born according to tradition in Babylon c. 110 BCE, died 10 CE in Jerusalem) was one of the most important sages in Jewish history. He is associated with the development of the Mishnah and the Talmud. Renowned as a spiritual leader and scholar, he was the founder of the House of Hillel school for Tannaïm (Sages of the Mishnah) and the founder of a dynasty of Sages who stood at the head of the Jews living in the Land of Israel until roughly the fifth century of the Common Era.

 

Joe Laur is a father, husband, naturalist, executive, consultant, and a lowly rabbinic student. He can be reached at joe.laur@godsdog.net.

Let Life Rub You The Right Way

28 Sunday Feb 2016

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“If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?”
― Rumi

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In our daily lives, we often find our selves irritated by the little things in life: the traffic light that makes us wait, a rude waiter, a mess in the kitchen that someone left for us, someone who just “rubs us the wrong way.” There’s no end to it. Rumi shows us there is another way. The inevitable frictions of life are unavoidable, but how we respond to them is firmly within our circle of influence.

We all know that a pearl is a response to irritation. But the oyster creates beauty from it and never whines. Can we be as wise as an oyster and do the same? The knife on a whetstone is irritated by the rubbing, but positioned at the right angle, the friction creates a fine razor edge. So can we hone  our rough edges,  if we change our position in relationship to the endless irritants that life gives us. We can let them rub us the right way.

What can you transform from irritation to inspiration today?

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Jalal ad-Din Muhammed Rumi was a 13th-century Persian poet, jurist, Islamic scholar, theologian, and Sufimystic. Rumi’s influence transcends national borders and ethnic divisions; people of all faiths and nations have greatly appreciated his spiritual legacy for the past seven centuries. His poems have been widely translated into many of the world’s languages and transposed into various formats. Rumi has been described as the “most popular poet” and the “best selling poet” in the United States.

Joe Laur is a father, husband, naturalist, executive, consultant, and a lowly rabbinic student. He can be reached at joe.laur@godsdog.net.

Hang Out With Wise Guys

27 Saturday Feb 2016

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Let your home be a meeting place for the wise; dust yourself in the soil of their feet, and drink thirstily of their words.

-Rabbi Yose ben Yoezer

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A friend of mine, the poet Robert Bly, often talks about great writers emerging in groups, not singly. The implication is that by hanging out with other writers, they spark and inform each other, and produce better work than if they were working alone.

Now Im not sure if this is always the case for writers, but I know that one of the best ways to gain wisdom is to hang out with wise people. Rabbi Yose ben Yoezer urges us to make our home their meeting place, to roll in the dirt of their feet, and chug-a-lug their words! In other worlds, immerse ourselves in them. Who knows, maybe something will rub off!

The Hebrew word for wisdom, chochmah, is said to be a combination of the words for potential and being. The Potential to Be. If we are wise, we can see and realize our potential. If we are not, we will stay stuck in what we have always been. Maybe this is why we need to hang out with wise folks- to see their potential, and hopefully, let them see ours, even when we can’t see it ourselves.

Who brings wisdom into your life? Who sees your potential?

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Yose ben Yoezer (circa 164 BCE) was a rabbi of the early Maccabean period, possibly a disciple of Antigonus of Soko and member of the ascetic group known as the Hasidæans, though neither is certain. He belonged to a priestly family.

Joe Laur is a father, husband, naturalist, executive, consultant, and a lowly rabbinic student. He can be reached at joe.laur@godsdog.net.

One Key To Wisdom

18 Thursday Feb 2016

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“Who is wise? The one who learns from everyone”

-Shimon ben Zoma

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Today’s post is as sweet and simple as the maple syrup I’ll soon be making from the trees on my land.  Opportunities to learn are all around us, in nature, in our neighbors, in ourselves. There is a Native American story about two lost boys who discover a rock in the forest that tells them stories. They gather all the people to sit around the rock for days, hearing all the stories that there are in the world. No one person will remember them all, but everyone will  remember some of them, and if they share with each other, they will remember them all, collectively.

So it is with all learning. We can’t have it all within us, but by reaching out to people and creation around us, we can access the encyclopedia of the cosmos. We are all each other’s teachers and students, repositories of wisdom at just the right moment.

Who can you learn from today?

Simeon ben Zoma, also known as Simon ben Zoma, Shimon ben Zoma or simply Ben Zoma  was a Tanna of the first third of the 2nd century CE. His name is used without the title “Rabbi” because he died at a young age, remaining in the grade of “pupil” and never receiving rabbinical ordination.

Joe Laur is a father, husband, naturalist, executive consultant, and a lowly rabbinic student. He can be reached at joe.laur@godsdog.net.

The Universe Wants You to Grow!

14 Sunday Feb 2016

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“There is not a single blade of grass that has not its own star in heaven that strikes it and says “GROW!”

-Genesis Rabbah

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Growth is natural. It’s what living things do. It simply happens  whenever the conditions for growth are present, which is most of the time in most places on Earth.

We can think of ourselves as the gardeners of our lives, not task masters, shouting “Grow, dammit!” at ourselves; or judges, critiquing: “You’d be further along if you weren’t such a dope.” We all grow at our own pace, depending on genetics and circumstances, nature and nurture. What’s the main role of the gardener? Simply to tend to that which limits growth, such as shade, poor soil, drought, and and provide that which fosters it, such as water, nutrients, sunlight.

We can use this wisdom in our own lives, removing the poor soils of harsh judgement of ourselves, the drought of lousy self care, the shade of shame. We can provide ourselves with rich soils of people who love and respect us, the water of blessing from self and others, the nourishment of investing in our own well being. When that’s done, healthy growth is inevitable. In fact it’s the Way of the World.

What do you need to tend in your “garden” to grow deeper and higher today?

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Genesis Rabba  is a religious text from Judaism’s classical period, probably 4th or 5th  century C.E. It is a midrash comprising a collection of ancient rabbinical homiletical interpretations of the Book of Genesis.

Joe Laur is a father, husband, naturalist, executive consultant, and a lowly rabbinic student. He can be reached at joe.laur@godsdog.net.

Forgiving Ourselves

02 Tuesday Feb 2016

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“We achieve inner health only through forgiveness – the forgiveness not only of others but also of ourselves” – Rabbi Joshua Loth Liebman

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Usually when we think of forgiveness, we think of it in terms of others; either forgiving others who have wronged us, or asking forgiveness of those we have wronged. But what about forgiving ourselves for our “trespasses” against our own ideals?

I find self forgiveness the most difficult. I can usually find a way to forgive others without too much difficulty, especially if they acknowledge the hurt they caused me and ask for forgiveness. That melts my heart. If i’m aware of hurting others, I want to make it right between us as well. I don’t like to leave accounts unsettled, or be at odds with people I care about. But what about settling scores with my self?

I’m  my own harshest critic, as many of us are. A friend once told me she had an “inner prosecutor” who reminded her continuously of everything she’d done wrong. She got the idea of hiring an “inner defense attorney” to handle her case! Can we treat ourselves as well as we want others to treat us? As well as we want to treat others? How can we find ways to forgive ourselves, and genuinely return to our highest ideals?

I usually start by imagining how I’d treat a dear friend. If we are supposed to love others as ourselves, that means we have to love ourselves! I ask myself, if someone else had done this thing, fallen short of their ideals with me, would I forgive them? The answer is almost always yes. So why should I be harder than that on myself? Extending forgiveness to ourselves also makes it easier to extend it to others. And we all know that practice makes perfect.

What can you forgive yourself for today, and let it be as dust in the wind?

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Joshua Loth Liebman (1907–1948), was an American rabbi and best-selling author, best known for the book Peace of Mind, which spent more than a year at #1 on the New York Times Best Seller list.

Joe Laur is a father, husband, artist, builder, naturalist, consultant, and EcoKosher mashgiach. He lives with his wife Sara in western Massachusetts, where he serves as head groundskeeper and resident singer songwriter. Send him your favorite teaching quote for commentary. He can be reached at joe.laur@joelaur.com.

Make Each Day Count

25 Monday Jan 2016

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“Teach us to number or days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” -Psalm 90:12

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My cousin David was in a serious auto collision a few years back. His girlfriend was killed outright, he lingered in critical condition for a few days before succumbing to his injuries. While praying for his  full healing, and after his death, I opened his Facebook page and looked at his photos. They were photos of happiness, of love, of achievement- a solid guy with a big heart and a level head, enjoying life with a woman he loves.

In an instant, all of that is disrupted.  A sudden swerve, a turn, a choice, a moment of neglect or distraction, and lives are changed forever, upended, broken, gone. A life will never be the same.

Isn’t that true in any instant? Every moment, every day is here and now, and in the next turning it’s then and there, gone forever. The Psalmist urges us to not only count/number/treasure each day, but promises that doing so will gain us a heart of wisdom. Not head of wisdom, but something deep, with sense and sensation, feeling, emotion. An appreciation of each  passing moment that never returns.

In this awareness, the immediacy of life, the preciousness of living, is ours to savor, roll around on our tongue, and swallow whole. It’s all we have really. Just moments to live. This moment, and this one and this one, until our moment comes. Living in the wisdom that each day is numbered, finite, to be treasured, makes even a lousy day a blessing. As the Talmudists say, “An hour of life is still life.”

How will you make today count?

Joe Laur is a father, husband, artist, builder, naturalist, consultant, and EcoKosher mashgiach. He lives with his wife Sara in western Massachusetts, where he serves as head groundskeeper and resident singer songwriter. Send him your favorite teaching quote for commentary. He can be reached at joe.laur@joelaur.com.

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